Originally Posted by gerad

1. Get used to the environment that your in

Its important that you get used to it, you that feeling when your at home? well you need it outside aswell. Women pick up on this.

Yer, I think this is kind of important yer

2. Walk slower

Walk slower than the average human, move slower, slower movements, slower facial expressions

Nooo, don't try doing this, it doesn't do anything, trust me

3. Head back, back straight

Get used to this, this will be ether your new walk, or your "i want some pussy so im going to walk like this walk"

But dont become over animated or your going to look like a dick

Hmm, don't doubt it

4. Focus on an object

Focus on it, give it all your attention, it may help you calm down and reach a level of centeredness that the bitches will pick up on.

Really? Does this work? I'd think it'd put you more inside yourself?

5. Breath slower

Breath slower in an attempt to stay calm and in control, remember femine eneregy relaxes when around strong masculine enregy. Strong masculine eneregy is calm, not angry.

Don't bother, there's a trick where you match the girls breathing supposedly, and it makes her feel a connection with you

6.Breath from your belly

Breath from your belly, not your chest, this will futher calm you down.

Possible

7.Get into a state of readiness

Be ready for anything, if your bag drops, you can catch it, a gunshot, your out the way, confrontation, your ready.

Haha no people, don't do this, you'll be constantly on edge xD, you don't want to constantly feel under threat

8. Wear your best clothes

Wear your best clothes, clothes that are in fashion, fit you well and bring out the best in you

Probably, but your clothes shouldn't have an effect on you, you should be able to feel good in a plain t-shirt and old jeans.

9. Have good self talk

For the moment that is. For example "Im amazing in bed, amazing, none of these women will get to sleep with me" will get them to look at you. instead of "oh gosh i hope they like me" that wont work. Talk yourself up, put yourself on a pedastool if you want. But dont build an ego around it because it may stop working.

Wut? Narcissism never got anyone anywhere. The more you pretend you are incredible, the worse you feel for not living up to your high expectations. So it'd be more like you do neither... Don't talk yourself up, or you'll feel BAAAAAAAAD.

10. Hair

Good haircut, thats it,

Okay, sure, of course, but you should have the ability to feel like normal without a good haircut. It shouldn't affect you.

11. Ipod

there always handy if you need a boost of confidence

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12. Be the sun

Planets orbit around the sun for approval and validation. Your not a planet, women are, now ether dress up and high heels and blow me start acting like a man.

???

13. Be tall

You need to be tall, wear those shoes that make you taller if your naturally a miget.

lol poor midgets

14. Smell

Smell good, wash your clothes before hand, 1 day before

Yes, but shouldn't make a lot of difference

15. Dont check out other women straight away

When you walk into a room, your mr high status, even higher than david deangelo, you walk in and look at no-one, but this comes from a position of power.

Really?

16. Dont try hard to get laid

You can please yourself whenever you want to, get a hooker or fuck fat bitches, if you have this neediness mentality your IOIs could decrease dramaticaly. Have a "you want me but i dont need you attitude" have a "thousands of hot babes to every 1 of me" attitude.

YES YES YES. Well, my suggestion is, have a "I want you, it'd be fucking awesome if you want me too" attitude

17. Sit with your legs out

Not over animated, dont look like a dick

LOL I used to do that a little more than just over animated

18. Dont smile

Dont smile unless congruent with how you feel in that moment, its very sexy

Goddamn I think true. Smiling because the other person is looking at you and smiling probably looks weak.

19. Physique

Work on your body

You should be able to feel good without doing this, btw

Originally Posted by gerad

20. Teeth

Brush your teeth

Haha, YES, do this

21. Transport

I reccomend walking, when you walk others see you more.

How about no, the car is better

22. Get used to counting without moving your head. If a blonde chick was checking you out, thats an IOI. Just because she doesn't know you saw it, its still an IOI.

Clearly, but counting? ahaha

23. Close your mouth

Opening of the mouth can suggest to others that you want there approval and that your not that cool.

Don't, I can't breathe through my nose so my mouth is ALWAYS open, and I have been REALLY high status sometimes so I don't think this is true at all.

24. Hands

1 in a pocket at the most

Probably true, but ignore, because you don't want to be conscious of it, if you put your hands in your pockets, don't worry, don't even think about that.

25. Shave

Look your best again

Yes, but still, you should be able to feel good without doing this. Thing is the guys that can't feel good about themselves without first doing so much for their looks probably points to some issues somewhere. You will feel hotter, but it shouldn't be that you don't feel good UNLESS you do those things.

26. Healthy eating

Healthy eating makes you feel better and eventually look better

Erm, hardly, just see it this way, if you are actually depressed or feel bad to the point where you need to do these things in an attempt to feel happy for once, eating healthy isn't going to help you. Seriously.

27. Healthy sleeping

Sleeping 8 hours of more can really help, try not to overdo it or sleep for too less.

Possibly, but once again, if you have serious issues (eg you are depressed etc) this WON'T fix them.

28 Learn from your mistakes

What did you do in this situation that you wont do next time, which of the numbers on here did you not use correctly. Which did you not use at all.

Don't give it too much thought. If you get too conscious of the things this list mentions, then it's v. bad.

29. Dont masturbate

Masturbation decreased your masculine eneregy. Well its debatable because it is healthy as well. But try to do this in moderation. What im saying is if you drop the habit the IOIs increase or stay big. Success is still managable even after you have just masturbated. My advice is try whatever works for you.

Keep jacking off, this is ridiculous that people think this. If you feel bad this WON'T help. If you feel good and jack off, it won't stop your success, like many other things like this.

30. Time

Give it time, time for things to work, could take a few weeks before things start to click. Practise on your new walk. Your new everything.Remember the saying that our going to stick out like a sore thumb. Well your going to stick out like jens nose when this is finished. Get comfortable in certain places. You will start to relise that logic goes out of the window in some situations and you may suprise yourself. Mabie in the future we can have IOI competitions. Where 2 guys walk around a city and 1 guy takes a pen and paper and follows them. How fun.

Originally Posted by onenatural

kill yourself

Originally Posted by MurdocIsGod

So there's less competition for your IOI counting?

Good plan onenatural, but he's collected too many IOIs this month to do that!

Originally Posted by MurdocIsGod

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Originally Posted by gerad

I base my success on getting IOIs

Number 15 is huge btw

I will def look through again and make some more comments on your quotationials

Originally Posted by MurdocIsGod

Okay, I think I used to do that a lot :s, I guess I'll see what happens if I go back to my room-entries of 3 years ago. I had a lot of self-confidence then and things which have changed have made me lose some of that edge (I went through TERRIBLE things in my life around that time :/), I so wish you could just pluck out any personality traits you ever had and just pick and choose what to use lol.

Originally Posted by LEAVE TYLER ALONE

I always thought IOI was the same as LOL, like not with captial L? Am I missing something?

Originally Posted by MAKEOUTMAKEOUTMAKEOUT

No not the same, but if you get a LOL that could be an IOI but not all LOLs are IOIs. If they are LOLing at you then thats an IOD. This can be confusing, so make sure you buy my IOI LOL DVD combo pack. Act now and you can get free RSD BUCKS!!!

Originally Posted by gerad

You used to do that alot, was it a uncouncious thing do you think?
Yea its kind of like a motivation when we see the things we used to have, but then we can stress over them and wish we were a certain way. How did those things hurt your success with women?

Originally Posted by MurdocIsGod

Success with women? It hurt it, definitely, but I can still have relationships with really attractive women time to time. Just that before I could literally just BE there and I'd usually end up with any girls I saw that I liked, and I never did any approaching. Literally just sit in class at school and often people would talk to me, about me, and generally give me a lot of attention without me doing a single thing.

Originally Posted by gerad

Everybody gets the better end of the deal by being around you, but your ok with it, because your content, your not climbing some social ladder, your not the class clown. Your not worried about being picked on. Man i dont even know what "IT" is.

Originally Posted by MurdocIsGod

QFT

Defo worked that way for me. Since the introduction of "be an alpha male" was cast upon me though, I feel the need to always be seen as the most dominant and can't take feeling submissive. Maybe just an anomoly, but in my experience, it worked in a whole different way from what the community teaches. I always caved in to what people wanted and let people have their way all the time (sometimes I'd fight back a little over something but always caved if they went on). Sure I'd suggest things, but it'd be like "do you want to *insert something here*?" and not alpha male "MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY BITCH!" And believe it or not people often went along with my suggestions. My role was ALWAYS second-in-command (as in actual true to life Beta male I guess, not "beta male" as in all PUA books ever) and I was the absolute happiest that way. I know the alpha male stuff is kinda bollocks but I can't seem to get it out of my life.

I can tell you that the top dog alpha males of my school and everywhere in general could (probably) have it off with any girl they wanted, and (probably) easier than me, but I ALWAYS ended up in flings of some sort with every girl I ever liked (say 98%), some of them being faaaar more popular than me, like the equivalent status of a cheerleader in a US school I guess. I was dead in the middle of the social ladder I guess, and very often teased the guys below me with/to my mates.

And to be honest with you, I really enjoy always thinking about a girl and whether she likes me, speaking dirty about her in my head, and kind of having that period of chasing (I remember once, I really fancied this girl in my class, she would always pretend to be into me to mess with me [REALLY did mess with me, because sometimes she seemed more serious, still to this day can't figure out when she was actually into me, because she touched me a lot and let me to her etc], and it was a whole year almost before she ACTUALLY clearly and definitely fancied me for real, which was kind of funny for me because I could mess with her too like she did to me for ages).

I would SO SO SO much prefer to have that period of slight flirting, thinking about her all the time, the "I think she likes me, holy shit" & "I want to fuck her so hard she's so fucking hot" thing, than to be the object of desire of every girl ever. Like walking into a room and every girl goes "OMG OMG HE'S SEXY I WANT TO FUCK HIM!!!" Is a lot (really) less appealing to me. Perhaps that's a bit feminine of me pity these smilies don't look any more masculine! ... ... ahh that's better I feel less poofy after using that one.

Hope this doesn't seem narcissistic, but I always feel like that if I do any self-analysis lmao.

Originally Posted by gerad

Yea if a girl desires me and its not the real me it sucks man it really does. Unless she has the most amazing ass im not very happy.Id rather be the normal guy than mr "low self esteem egotistical bully" it really sucks too be that guy. If i need to stand up for myself 1 time every few years then so be it. But im not doing all that shit again. All that list on here. Its true, it works, but i dont give a flying fuck too be honest with you. I was SICK of walking into places where chicks would check me out over and over again. This stuff can work if you really want a hot piece of ass too pay attention to you, not a 7,8,9 but a 10. Then mabie, but its pointless. I dont want 40 year olds checking me out. I even cut down dramaticaly on my body language and everything else, the need for approval is diminishing and im much happier that way.